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Guest Speaker: Waring Fincke
FORGE had the honor of having attorney Waring Fincke share with
us his views on how the law can impact transgender issues, as well
as what steps trans people can take to better protect themselves
to avoid potential problems. He has given great thought to trans-legal
issues over the past 20 years, and offered some very useful strategies
and answers to attendees.
Waring can be contacted at:
Waring R. Fincke
Attorney at Law
1784 Barton Ave., Suite 17
West Bend, Wisconsin 53090
(262) 334-1030 (voice)
(262) 334-1035 (fax)
http://my.execpc.com/~wrfincke/
There are -- in most cities and states -- no hard and fast laws
that protect, or even address, transgender people (let alone partners
or family members of trans people). Because of this, people in power
(police, judges, employers, apartment building managers, clerks
at the DMV, to just name a few) are frequently flying by the seat
of their pants, trying to make the best choices possible without
any formal training or protocols to follow. Many people are trying
to support the rights and dignity of trans people, but they simply
may not know what to do. Of course, there are plenty of cases where
a person in power is intentionally causing hardship, or worse, for
a trans person. To protect yourself, take proactive measures by
creating as many legal buffers around you as you can IN CASE there
is a problem somewhere down the road. Legal buffers (carry
letters, prenuptial agreements, durable power of attorney, etc.)
can “shore up” your case, if a problem crops up later
on!
The information in this follow-up is predominantly from Waring’s
presentation on March 5, but some additional information has been
included.
- While most trans people just want to use the restroom and not
cause a scene (usually desiring the exact opposite -- to simply
blend in or go unnoticed), we may have times when we don’t
fit well into either of the two-gendered bathroom options we are
most frequently given. When possible, try finding unisex/single
unit bathrooms to avoid any confrontation with others who may
question your gender, or their belief of if it’s appropriate
for you to be in their bathroom.
- The most common charge for using a bathroom that may or may
not match your plumbing and/or driver’s license sex is disorderly
conduct. Anything that may cause a social disruption (i.e. a woman
in the women’s bathroom freaking out because she thinks
there is a man in the bathroom), or any conduct that is loud,
profane or provokes and disturbance can be classed as disorderly
conduct. If police are called, the trans person can be “warned”,
ticketed or arrested. It is not illegal to go into ANY bathroom.
It only becomes an issue if someone is upset by someone else’s
presence and calls security/police.
- If using a gendered, multi-person bathroom, it’s often
best to quickly and efficiently use the facilities and leave (i.e.
don’t linger or spend a lot of time looking in the mirror).
If using the men’s room and also using a device which allows
standing urination, it is best (safest) to always use a stall
-- thereby reducing the chance that another man will question
your validity in the men’s room.
- The use of a “carry letter”
is often a great way to avoid escalating conflict and may be a
“get out of jail free” card. A “carry
letter” is a note from a therapist or physician that
states your transgender status. If confronted at the airport or
by police, providing a carry letter often proves your “validity”
and lets people know you have a “legitimate” reason
for being in a particular bathroom and/or are involved in a gender
transition (and not just trying to find the bathroom with the
shortest line!). Carry letters
can shift a police officer’s choice of doling out a verbal
warning rather than ticketing you, or worse yet, arresting you.
[A great idea for always having your carry letter ready for use
(and not ending up crumpled or torn) is to shrink and laminate
it. Often, you can shrink it to the size of a credit card (so
you can stick it in your wallet) and still read the letter.]
- In employment situations, it’s best to talk with your
employer before you transition. Often arrangements can be made
for transitional/unisex bathroom use, until the point in time
when most everyone feels comfortable using the bathroom of your
choice (new gender presentation). If you wish to remain stealth
about your transition (e.g. if you transitioned a long time ago
and don’t want anyone to know), a
carry letter may still be advisable, as well as finding out
about your rights as spelled out in written company policy.
- If confronted by the police, it MIGHT be more problematic to
have an M on your drivers license than your original F. Police
may think it’s fraud -- that the license isn’t really
yours or you are using it for other illegal purposes. Again, a
carry letter may be one way to diffuse this situation and
help things move to a calm resolution.
People
in Search of Safe Restrooms
http://www.pissr.org/
(Dean Spade)
People in Search of Safe Restrooms (PISSR) believes that all
people, regardless of their gender identification or presentation,
have the right to access safe and dignified restroom facilities
without fear of harassment, judgment or violence. In order
to reach this goal, PISSR is committed to establishing gender-neutral
bathrooms.
- Problems can arise when trying to get married or get unmarried.
In Wisconsin, marriage is considered to be between a man and a
woman -- but those terms are not defined anywhere in the law.
- When getting divorced, there can be questions about property
rights, child custody, and insurance or Social Security benefits.
Cases have gone both ways in divorces where one person is transgender.
Some people end up losing nearly everything when their marriage
dissolves, while others have equitable divisions based on common
marital laws and agreements.
- When getting married, it is wise to create a prenuptial agreement,
so that if a divorce happens, there is at least one legal document
that highlights what both people wanted -- at least at one point
in time -- so it’s not solely left up to lawyers and judges,
whose personal beliefs about transgender issues may interfere
with their decisions. Prenuptial agreements cannot address child
custody, since courts will not honor it.
- Marriage in Wisconsin is based on what is on your birth certificate.
Therefore, many gender pairings are possible, depending on what
is noted on the birth certificate. For example, and MTF (birth
certificate still = M) and an FTM (birth certificate still = F)
could legally be married. Likewise, a genetic women (birth certificate
= F) and an FTM (birth certificate = M) could get married -- regardless
of their genital status. Additionally, this method of examining
birth certificates, not body configuration, allows for “gay
marriage.” For example, an FTM (birth certificate = F) could
legally marry his gay male partner (birth certificate = M).
“Transgender Elders and Marriage: The Importance of Legal
Planning”
by Shannon Minter’s
http://www.forge-forward.org/handouts/TGElders-Marriage-ShannonMinter.pdf
This article is a brief overview of legal issues pertaining
to transgender elders and marriage, including what legal steps
should be made to protect married couples that include at least
one trans person.
Medical
POA (Power of Attorney) -- Advanced Healthcare Directive |
- A big concern of many trans people and their families is where
the trans person would be housed if they were jailed. Generally,
a person’s location is determined by their plumbing. If
their genital status is “female” (which generally
means the absence of a penis and/or the presence of a vagina),
the person will be put in the women’s “side”.
- If a person is considered “vulnerable” (small in
stature, not assertive, disabled), s/he will often be placed in
a segregated cell.
- Police should not harass people they arrest or are questioning,
but it happens frequently.
- Being prepared -- all the time -- with your (trans-friendly/trans-aware)
lawyer’s business card and
carry letter may help avoid additional problems if you are
arrested. If possible, always make your first (or only) call to
your lawyer.
- If you have been arrested, you have the right to request to
speak with a (police) supervisor and to make a phone call (to
your lawyer).
Fact
Sheet: Rights of Transgender Prisoners
By Courtney Joslin, Esq., National Center for Lesbian Rights
A referenced Q & A article about transgender issues and
prison.
http://www.nclrights.org/publications/tgprisoners0804.htm
http://www.nclrights.org/publications/pubs/tgprisoners0804.pdf
- Is it legal for someone to “out” you, against your
will? A question was asked about a contracted service provider
who outed their trans client to other staff members at the service
provider’s company. The company later discontinued offering
services to the trans client. In this particular case, the service
provider was breaking HIPPA privacy rights by divulging the trans
status of one of their clients. They were, however, entitled to
discontinue service, since there was no long-term contract or
other agreements.
- Can you be charged with fraud if you check a “male”
or “female” box on a form? Short answer: no. Longer
answer: If you are completing your employment application and
your employer later finds out something that is not consistent
with what you put in your initial application, you could be fired
for lying on your application.
[Which box you check on some forms may be significant –
and not just something that is personal preference. For example,
if your medical insurance company has recorded your gender as
female and you check male on medical forms in your doctor’s
office, your insurance company may not pay for services rendered
if there are discrepancies in their data vs. what is being submitted
from a provider’s office.]
- A gender therapist or specialist coming in to talk with an
employer (or staff) can be useful and reduce a lot of tension
between employee and employer (or coworkers).
- It’s wise to talk to HR (human resources) an equal opportunity
or diversity person at your place of employment. It’s better
to tell folks ahead of time and make a game-plan, rather than
to spring a surprise on everyone.
- If HR is not supportive, asking your attorney to call or write
a letter may be in your best interest (and my help HR staff make
a different, more supportive choice).
- Put everything in writing! Don’t just call. Write and
use snail mail -- certified and with return receipt requested.
Carbon copy your letter to the head of the company, the diversity
contact person, the head of equal opportunity, or others who may
be an ally or who uphold company policy.
- If you transitioned a long time ago, can you be fired if your
employer finds out that you are trans? It’s possible, but
not likely. It’s less likely if you are a member of a union
and are not an employee-at-will.
Transgender
Employment Links
http://www.gendersanity.com/resources.shtml
The web sites listed on this page contain information about
transitioning on the job and other issues transsexual and
transgendered workers and their employers may face. Some present
the transsexual worker's point of view, others offer advice
from professionals. Several pages of legal resources, from
both the United States and Europe, are listed. Also included
are sites that provide mail order service for relevant books.
- If an employer runs a background check, they will either find
information only up to the date you changed your name, or will
find all information on you (including prior to a name change).
If your employer sees an inconsistency between, what you put on
your resume (e.g. 20 years of experience/jobs) and your background
check (if it comes out with only 4 years), they may question your
honesty or integrity.
- HR personnel can be your friends and advocates if you need
to have a background check run. Providing all names in the field
on the form asking for any aliases or names you have gone by,
will alleviate most problems -- this does mean, though, that you
will be out to your employer (or at least out to the HR staff
who process the application). Most HR staff can be confidential
about sensitive information. Often companies keep separate files
with secure/sensitive information (such as pay grade, social security
number, background checks and drug test results).
Medical
staff in Emergency Rooms |
- Can ER staff deny treatment if you are transgender? They shouldn’t!
If the hospital receives Hill Burton Act funds, they MUST serve
everyone.
- In most cases, if you are coming to an ER and need emergency
care, physicians and staff will address your immediate condition
FIRST and possibly later interact with you about your transgender
status.
- Once again, having a carry
letter in your wallet can be helpful.
- Some people wear medic alert bracelets or necklaces to let
physicians know that they are transgender. These tags are checked
when a patient arrives at a hospital, since it alerts medical
staff to allergies and/or conditions physicians should know about
before initiating treatment. Wearing a tag can minimize the provider’s
“shock” of finding “mismatched” genitals
in the cases where staff must cut off clothing or treat an unconscious
(trans) patient.
- Partners and friends can be great advocates in emergency situations,
talking FOR the trans person, if they are unable to.
- If you were treated unfairly or disrespectfully, you can write
letters (to the hospital administrator, to local newspapers, etc.)
after you are released from the hospital.
- Generally you need a surgeon’s letter stating you have
had irreversible gender reassignment surgery in order to have
the sex designator on your birth certificate changed. Many FTM’s
who have had chest surgery only, have been able to have their
birth certificates changed if their surgeon clearly states that
they have had irreversible gender reassignment.
- Some states to not allow you to change the sex designator on
birth certificates -- Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Ohio and Tennessee.
- In states not allowing birth certificate gender change, you
can get a passport.
General
Transgender Law Links |
- Transgender
Law and Policy Institute http://www.transgenderlaw.org/
Transgender Law and Policy Institute is a non-profit organization
dedicated to engaging in effective advocacy for transgender people.
The TLPI brings experts and advocates together to work on law
and policy initiatives designed to advance transgender equality.
- The
Transgender Law Center http://www.transgenderlawcenter.org/
The Transgender Law Center (TLC) is a civil rights organization
advocating for transgender communities. Every day TLC connects
transgender people and their families to technically sound and
culturally competent legal services, increases acceptance and
enforcement of laws and policies that support California's transgender
communities, and works to change laws and systems that fail to
incorporate the needs and experiences of transgender people.
TLC utilizes direct legal services, public policy advocacy, and
educational opportunities to advance the rights and safety of
diverse transgender communities. TLC uses the term “transgender”
to represent all of the innumerable genders and forms of gender
expression that fall within and outside of stereotypical gender
norms. TLC also understands, acknowledges, and resists non-gender
based oppressions which limit people's ability to live in peace.
- Transgender
Law Project http://www.nclrights.org/projects/transgenderproject.htm
Shannon Minter is a key staff person at the Transgender Law Project.
He has worked with transgender people (especially transmasculine
individuals) and their families for many years, regardless of
their geographic location.
The Transgender Law Project (TLP) is a brand new effort to create
effective and long-lasting legal advocacy for the San Francisco
transgender community. TLP is co-sponsored by the National Center
for Lesbian Rights and the Pride Law Fund.
- Spencer
Bergstedt http://www.spencelaw.com/
Spencer Bergstedt, Esq., has just written 2 books, both entitled
"Translegalities A Legal Guide for () Transsexuals".
You might wonder what the () is for and why 2 books. Well, the
answer is simple within the () put either FTM or MTF, depending
on which book you'd like to order. Each book covers a multitude
of legal issues as they relate to transsexuals. Included are such
things as Insurance, Marriage, Estate planning, Divorce, Child
Custody issues, Name Change, Birth Certificates, Drivers License,
Social Security, Workplace issues, Criminal issues and more. The
book includes name, birth certificate, and driver's license change
information for all 50 states. Each also includes lots of resource
information like reading lists, organizations, products, etc.
specific to whether you are FTM or MTF. Each book is 103 pages,
8 1/2 x 11 format. The cost is $30.00.
- Phyllis
Randolph Frye http://www.transgenderlegal.com/main1.htm
Transgender Legal was created to accelerate the legal freedom
of transgenders!
Transgenders include, but are not limited to, part-time crossdressers
and full-time transsexuals. This site is dedicated to assist them
and any other person who expresses any type of actual or perceived
gender presentation which is at variance with bipolar, socially
assigned, gender presentations or gender identifications.
Transgender Legal is the official web site for Phyllis Randolph
Frye, Esq., of Houston, Texas, USA. This site includes most of
the two-plus decades of her writings and other items that she
has produced in her quest for individual freedom and for freedom
of her people.
- Sylvia
Rivera Law Project
http://www.srlp.org/
SRLP works to guarantee that all people are free to self-determine
gender identity and expression, regardless of income or race,
and without facing harassment, discrimination or violence.
- Press
for Change http://www.pfc.org.uk/
Press for Change is a political lobbying and educational organisation,
which campaigns to achieve equal civil rights and liberties for
all transgender people in the United Kingdom, through legislation
and social change.
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